It happens with all of us, at one point of time we unintendedly relate your present situation with something that happened in the past. That’s natural. Your past is always a teacher for you, but it never attempts to influence your present and ultimately affect your future. We allow our sub-consciousness decide things. We let our past dominate. We fail to recognize this glitch.
We need to act according to the need of the situation, and not by swaying backwards to the gone. It will never come back, it will only haunt you. You must not be afraid of your past, but should be confident that you have learnt enough to be responsible in the present and progress positively in the future.
People often stop trusting others, in the fear of the event of betrayal in their past. Well, you are a bold and mature individual and you must not judge every person for the one who deceived you. We cannot stop eating food because of the one dish that didn’t taste good.
Sometimes at one point of time, people stop believing in friendships, love and stop hoping for any good in future. You might have got a scolding from your parents today, doesn’t signify that they don’t love you. Watch someone stand against you and they will protect you like a shield. Sometimes, learning from past doesn’t mean resisting yourself from ever attempting something similar. What is gone, is gone. But what we see now and will face later is a collection of outcomes of varied decisions and choices we make. If you let your past drive your mind, you will complete a circle. Let your determination ride it, you will reach your destination.
“History will repeat itself, but if you change the way they made history, you would probably not follow the same path and probably land the other destination.”