Things get tough, day by day, something is already bothering you and something else just pops up and makes it worse. We all go through it, but the one thing I have always known is that it will get better. And unlike everyone else, I won’t say that it will magically get better, it will take time but it will take consistent efforts during that period of time. It is all about how much you work, and how patient you are, that will help you overcome a particular situation.
Focus on what motivates you, who motivates you, what helps you, what is not helping you and try to work on it accordingly. Whining over the problem won’t help you, but constructively thinking about the solution can definitely help.
Start with the cause, the reason for the problem to exist in the first place, then proceed with working on it. If the cause was a situation that cannot be changed, or an action that cannot be undone, then don’t waste time pondering upon what has happened and focus on what can be done next.
I know you’d think it’s easy for me to say because I am not in that situation, but trust me this is something that helps me, and probably thinking about it will help you get direction, to follow the right way and get your peace.
The problem-solving approach you hold is crucial for your growth as a person because how you handle situations determine the kind of situations you will land onto next.
You have to be careful, you have to be brave. You have to be strong and most importantly have faith. Things will work out only if you have faith and hope that it will get better.
“Every experience, bitter or sweet, will change you as a person. every decision, actions and choices you make will define you as a person.”